Green Flags In A Relationship To Look Out For

Flags can be used to visually send a signal to or someone. This signal can be positive or negative. In war, different flags represent different meaning such as the White Flag normally represent peace or surrender, white the red flag represents danger and lastly the Green Flag represents hope. I believe you are quite aware of red flags in a relationship like if the person is rude to you or with your family members or if they are too snobbish or show lack of care you should hit the road. However, if you just met someone or you are dating already and you are considering starting a committed relationship with that person you need to take note of some green flags before getting serious. 

This is very important because it can help you to reduce some painful memories or heartbreak.

Green flags actually assist one to be able to know when to take a relationship serious or not. You will see these green flags in your relationship if:

1. You feel comfortable or at ease with that person.

If you are in a relationship with someone and you have peace of mind that is a green flag that you should take that person seriously. In fact, a relationship that relaxes you actually leads to a peaceful life and good health other than one that stresses you. So if you're dating someone and you feel very comfortable being with the person and at ease, that's a signal that you should camp around there.

2. You won't see the need to pretend around them.

It is very common in a relationship for one to try to make a good impression, especially at the initial stage. However, as relationship ages real and true identity are revealed. When all these are happening and the person's love for you doesn't change but tends to grow more just know you have a keeper.

3. You have uncontrollable Joy whenever they are around you.

Someone who is a keeper always gives you joy and this joy is something that spreads around. This is one essential Green flag to look out for. If the person doesn't make you smile whenever they call or doesn't make you giggle at their presence then I don't think you should consider being with that person for any reason at all.

4. The first person that always comes to your mind.

When you receive good news or a bad one who is the first person that comes to your mind? This is a question you need to ask yourself as an important Green flag in relationship to check if a person is so important to you that you are willing to share your good times and also bad experience with them.

5. You both share a common interest.

A relationship with a common interest ends at a common goal. If you are in a relationship with someone and you both are vibrating at the same frequency that is a green flag that you should get serious with that person but if the interest actually differs you should actually consider it because, in the end, you both aren't going the same way in life.

6. You will be surprised how they are adjustable towards you

Arguments are something that cannot be avoided in a relationship. In fact, a relationship grows stronger when an argument occurs. If you have an argument with your partner and the person just told you sorry even though they're not wrong just know you have a winner because the person can go the extra mile, stretching themselves just to see you happy.

7. You will be amazed at their communication skills.

Good communication is the secret to a successful relationship. A person who can communicate their mind, feelings, and emotions properly is a big yes. I'm not saying that someone can't get angry at times but you'll be amazed at how the person compose his or herself, tries to bring up topics to engage you both in talking all the time, always check up on you, calls you and sends you messages to keep you talking and entertained. This is a green flag that you should build with that person.

8. You are challenged by them.

A person you should get serious with someone that challenges you to be better in life. This person will want to see you succeed in life and they take all your time to encourage you and motivate you and I don't think you need anyone to tell you that you have to take that person very seriously.

There is a quote said by Doreen Virtue and it goes like this:

Who has time for a toxic relationship? if someone isn't honoring your feeling it's not a real relationship. If you feel drained after spending time with someone, that's a red flag

A relationship should make you feel better and not worse. So before you get serious with someone check all the green flags to avoid time-wasting.